A few weeks ago, I asked Kay if she ever talks about her former home with her therapist.
Kay: No. Not much happened there.
If you haven't read yesterday's post, I think this will make more sense if you read it first. Sorry for assigning homework in the summer, and for lumping in an extra post this week.
The issue: Coach has a tendency to police me/the bio kids - but mostly me, or wince and make faces out of view of the girls if he thinks I said something wrong or maybe was too quick to correct. During the pre-portrait meal (like 90 min ahead of the 6:30 pm Sunday photo shoot) when ALL THE KIDS WERE HOME, there were lots of conversations going on.
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Is it me, or does Coach look a little like a twisted version of Bill Hader from the movie Trainwreck and former SNL star? |
I really do like this dress, and it usually looks really good on me - not the best angle here. |
Last fall we attended a fundraiser organized by our friends, whose daughter died of a DIPG brain tumor in 2022 at the age of 3. It's called the Violet Foundation. (if interested in learning more about it, or donating to this worthy cause that is close to our hearts, please click the link).
I dropped most of my silent auction tickets in the bucket for a family portrait session, and we won! We had not had a family portrait since Mini was 12. Um, she's 21. We do have several very nice family photos taken with great regularity, but we'd not done something professional in ions.
To say it took an act of God to get all of our people in one place in outfits that 'worked'* is an understatement. My home currently resembles a mall. Rarely do I have people (and by people, you know that I'm looking at the men in the bunch right? That was implied) willing to go shopping. The three oldest, all male, have moved out of the house, so there's that. Because I'm me, I played a fun game of bringing the mall to the people.
I do not recommend.
The thought of dragging all of the items, that didn't make the cut, back to various stores is daunting and I want the non-shopping contingent to handle the returns.
Four of the five dresses worn by the girls/me were all thrifted. (I will leave the thrifting adventure story for another post, and yes - this might require a reminder). Rae wore the dress I bought her on sale for her 8th grade graduation.
We went with a blue theme - and white. Shades of blue. The girls all knew what they were wearing and a few of the fellas knew, but the others were going to be a game time decision. The night BEFORE, yes I'm shouting, I asked Reg (not for the first time) if he had a pair of boat shoes.
Reg: Yep.
Me: OK, can you pull them out of the mudroom, so I can see them?
Later when I got home from wherever I was, Reg: Um, I guess I only have one. Um, one shoe.
How does this happen? He's not five. I texted the older boys, who don't reside here. Anyone have extra Sperry's or something? Ed texted a photo of 'dressy' flip flops (is that a thing) that he planned to wear. I had lost energy and barely cared, plus his GF is a fashionista, so I believed she'd given his shoe choice the nod. Fine.
Guess who has bright white feet in the photo? Thank you, golfing tan line.
There were a few day-of hurdles that I didn't anticipate. The main one relates to a behavior Coach has adopted that I find exhausting. He's a great guy and he's trying - don't get me wrong, but his need to have all go 'as-planned' for the sake of Kay and Rae . . . well, it's killing me.
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Can we pause here for a moment, and recognize that I've thought about this photo, focused on it, pondered whether or not we'd make it to this point, a finish line in a way, for a long time? You know, we tried to adopt before, and that didn't end well - and there've been days/stretches when I was unsure this was gonna happen. So this felt like a big deal.
Plus, I'm busy and had I considered all the outfits enough? Would the guy outfits incorporate enough navy? Was I dumb to not check on shoes earlier? This is me and my boys, minus our heads.
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I'll explain the 'issue' in a post tomorrow. Sorry for the extra post, but I hated to hit you with a long-winded story. I've also drafted a whole summary of the adoption, Kay's test results, etc. and that's not exactly a light, whimsical, brief piece - coming next week.
Anyone take a family photo and manage NOT to want to strangle the people in said photo? Do your people lose shoes?
Dad update: he's going well. Still has some pain, but off the painkillers. He cancelled the night nurses, feeling like he can manage on his own. When I brought dinner over the weekend, I re-enacted a fairly entertaining (after the fact) incident of Kay digging herself into some pretty deep trouble, and he complained that I was making him laugh too much - his stitches hurt.
I'm feeling like I'm in a try-to-catch-up blog place right now - as in, so much going on and only so much time to write about it. When I get myself organized, I'll share the Kay situation. Um, more Italy? Um, the Mini chronicles?
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My achy breaky back - My back has hurt on and off all of my adult life. Nothing shocking - low back stuff. Usually I do press-ups and it goes back to normal.
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Unrelated: Reg went to the store and couldn't find sandwich baggies, so he bought these. |
I happened to see my GP for a physical in mid June and she ordered a bone density test (not b/c of my back, but because it was time), a mammogram, and an x-ray of my back. The x-ray showed nothing, which we figured - but I'd have to have an x-ray before they would consider an MRI. She checked back in with me several weeks later and I told her it was still feeling bruised. Meanwhile, you know that I'm married to a PT, right?
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Mini put her sandwich in two baggies. |
I didn't do press-ups, but I tried watching movies while on the floor, propped up on my elbows. Mini and I watched Dirty Dancing over 4th of July weekend - she'd never seen it. By the time the movie was done, I could not get up off the floor. I eventually got on all fours and crawled to the couch to use the couch to hoist myself up. What on earth? Coach was out of town for July 4th and when he came back, I told him how the elbow thing was going. He told me to keep at it.
Also, I sleep on my belly. I start on one side, switch to my belly, and then I might switch to my other side. Right now, if I sleep on my belly (which I can do, but I'm in a lot of pain when I roll onto my front and it takes awhile for the pain to ease enough for me to go to sleep), then in the morning I can barely get out of bed. What the what? Once I was up on my feet, my back pain would improve throughout the day - the longer I was up and moving, the better it would feel. My neck is wonky right now, probably because I'm sleeping weird. *SIGH*
Coach was supposed to look at my back a few times, but it never happened. Finally last week, I went to his office. The doc had now ordered an MRI and even with my insurance it was gonna cost over $2K. Coach said an MRI isn't indicated. Really - WELL, WHY DON'T YOU LOOK AT ME AND THEN TELL ME WHAT IS INDICATED.
Have you heard of the shoemakers' children? Well, I'm here to tell you - it's a legit thing.
After he examined me, he gave me exercises to do, and none of them included press-ups, so I guess he realized that wasn't a good idea after all. I finally asked him a few days later, if he thought I might have a stress fracture in my back. This has been my fear. He said I might, which I translate to mean: probably.
If I have a stress fracture, then the protocol is to stop running for 6 weeks.
I rode the stationary bike the other day, and it didn't bother my back - so I guess I can ride the bike in order to get cardio. I can also walk, but who wants to spend time walking when it's so much faster to run? Plus, I now have to lay on the floor and do back exercises and that's time consuming, and for me - it's easy to get to the end of the day and realize that I haven't done them yet.
I'm grumpy. This has been hurting for at least two months. I don't run during the winter months, so it kills me to miss such a big chunk of my running season. Meanwhile, chunky toddlers are due back at my house . . . I don't know, probably mid-August, but I might put that off until after we take Reg to college, so the 18th? I'm gonna have to like, pick them up and stuff. I pick up heavy weights when I workout, but sometimes those little people aren't stationary and I don't have the mindset to get in a good position, you know?
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What is paining you today? Does anyone else sleep sunny-side down?
(this is the 2nd half of the grandparent saga that I posted Monday - if you haven't read that . . . we'll wait).
After a rescheduled zoom with the grandparents in Feb of '24 we explained our position, saying how their actions (specifically having the girls' mom's identical twin show up to 'surprise' the girls) were not in the girls’ best interest. We agreed to meet in person, so they could see the girls - but we would stick around. We went bowling. The grandma talked to the girls nonstop about her kids and her grandkids.
The grandparents met us out at a pizza place in July of '24 after the terrible awful happened (girls got a hold of an old Chromebook. Rae used the internet in the worst way possible, and Kay hopped on FB and handed out our address to a crappy, distant relative). The grandparents reiterated to Rae and Kay the importance of following our rules and listening to us, because we were giving them a life. Meanwhile, Kay's FB msg led to someone supplying our address to the jailed mom. Kay was sneaking letters from the jailed mom to their room.
Yeah, their mom knows where we live, and yet I still manage to sleep at night.
The grandma insisted that the mom doesn't want the girls, never did. Only cares about drugs. I spend a few days peeking outside, expecting to see some beat up car pull up. That fear has faded, plus the court ruled no contact. The mom isn't allowed to reach out.
The girls had an overnight weekend again in September, while we attended Tank’s parents’ weekend. We said no family visitors, but grandma had her kids and grandkids over. How is this Not Family? I guess she thinks that since her bio kids aren’t on drugs (it's the grandpa's kids that are so messed up) they don’t count. The point is - focus on them and don’t confuse them with family members they won’t have contact with anymore.
I’ve decided the (step) grandma literally cannot be alone with the girls. She has no interest in them. Prior to the weekend, we said, “No junk food, please.” The girls said they ate every meal at fast food. The girls didn’t know about our request, so they didn't think anything of telling us how great it was to eat crap again. In the grand scheme, this isn’t the end of the world, but shit - you said you’d do things our way . . . and then?
The grandma took them overnight a few days after Thanksgiving. They shopped at Walmart where she bought them pajamas (too heavy to actually sleep in) that look like an animal costume with the head on the hood. Not exactly practical, and again - not a deal breaker, but wouldn't it be nice if they asked what the girls needed and got them something on that list? These PJs are geared towards much younger kids, but whatever. Back when we went bowling the grandpa told Coach that he’d help us out anyway we needed. If the girls ever needed anything, just let him know.
We felt this was great news, because the girls need things. What they didn’t need were silly heavy fleece costume-like pjs. Maybe this was the year that all their grandkids got ridiculous pjs that take up an entire drawer as they double as an animal costume?
In the fall we’d asked if they might pitch in a bit (even a tiny bit) to help with the girls’ tuition. The grandparents declined- saying they try to keep it even between all the grandkids. Really? Were your other grandkids neglected? Left to fend for themselves while you dropped stuff off outside their house, afraid of what reality you might face if you went inside? Do your other grandkids have serious trauma scars that run deep?
The switch to the tiny private school was a game changer. Great friends. No screens. No bad influence kids, who Rae in particular was drawn to at our public junior high. We saw that school switch as the only option for us to keep the girls (we did seriously consider sending them back after the July '24 Shit Show), but when we started down this path we hadn't factored in the cost of private school. *sigh* I'll share our high school situation for Rae in someday . . . soon?
Then Rae’s January bday happened, and crickets from the grandparents. They know where we live, but didn't even mail a card or call. * Not expecting gifts, but why claim you want to stay in touch and then blow off her birthday?
* Long story but early on I’d hope to keep our address a secret from them, but we are listed and they found out our last name and looked us up. They told the girls they’d driven past our house before they moved in with us, but NOT to tell us that. Even if Coach is right: they were being cautious/showing concern for them, etc. - they told the girls to lie to us.
They texted in March when we were leaving for Italy/or in Italy? to ask if they could see the girls and I told them we were traveling.
Kay’s bday was in June. They missed that one too. We wondered if they’d fade into the abyss, and we are fine with that. Neither girl has asked about them since, I don’t even know when.
Last week, the grandma texted me. Hoping for an overnight. Our social worker has said that she understands if we don’t keep in touch with them. She dealt with them when the girls lived there. I think Coach and I will agree to do a supervised visit again. Coach thinks we invite them to our home for a Sunday night dinner. When I scowled, he said, "Eat on the deck?" We’re not interested in another overnight, which says a lot because we LOVE a break. The gparents are too out of the loop. We don’t trust them. They don’t seem overly invested, esp since they missed the girls birthdays.
Part of me wonders if I ask the girls individually if they’d like to see their grandparents, if Rae might say NO, and Kay night say SURE. Things don’t click the same way for Kay though. She’d be happy to visit with anyone for a change of scenery and a chance to score attention.
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Unrelated, but a pic of our family day yesterday. We took them to the city for a beach day, etc. This is four youngest watching Ed's beach volleyball team with Tank as a sub. |
Thoughts? Invite the grandparents for dinner? Meet them somewhere? Ask the girls if they want to see them? Tell the grandparents in advance that the girls are in need of xyz (school uniform socks, books, school supplies, lunch boxes, Kohl's giftcards for shoes), if they'd please consider that if/when buying them things? Or do what the family therapist suggested today, say with the adoption about to be finalized, we're focusing on that right now - but maybe in a few months.
Our soon-to-be adopted girls have a set of grandparents who live about an hour west of us. When their mom went to jail, the grandparents drove out of state to get the four kids. (yep, the girls have two older biological brothers).
I'm referring to their maternal grandfather and his 2nd wife, who I believe he has been married to for a long time - meaning she's been around since before the girls were born. Their maternal grandmother died of a drug overdose years ago. This we discovered when given about 500 pages for each girl to review before signing the adoption papers. (no, we do not yet have a court date, which is becoming increasingly irritating, because we hope/hoped to go to court in the summer before big kids go back to college, etc).
The grandparents were punitive with the girls when they lived with them from October '22 till May '23 when we entered the picture. The grandma couldn't manage the next older brother's behavior so she alerted DCFS and he went into a specialized pre-adoptive foster home. The oldest brother turned 18 and hollered, PEACE OUT, YA'LL ARE NUTS and returned to his home state. When the grandparents found out the mom wasn't gonna get the kids back, they waved the white flag and said We can't do this.
I don't fault them for that. That wasn't what they signed on for. The girls couldn't wait to get out of their house. We scooped them up the minute their school year was done.
The girls were supposed to have visits with the brother. The social worker organized a few early on, but he apparently lost ground after seeing his little sisters (he's about 2 yrs older than Rae). He was hospitalized and due to his many issues it was decided to stop the sib visits. The girls asked about him early on, but don't anymore. The social worker explained that the courts want to keep sibs in contact, but if it isn't in their best interest then it isn't in their best interest.
The grandma admitted to me, in a 'we just didn't have any idea what was going on' way, that they didn't ever set foot inside the daughter’s (her step daughter’s) house. When they visited, they left things on the front porch. Why? They knew shit was not good in that house and they played dumb. That's not acceptable IMO. Their grandchildren were suffering serious neglect.
The grandma is a piece of work. She's very involved/invested in her biological kids/grandkids' lives. The social worker described what it was like when she made visits to the gpa house while the girls were living there.
It was strange. The grandparents would sit and play cards at the kitchen table, but they made the girls stay in their room. According to the girls, they'd get bread and water as a meal if they got in trouble. When they failed to turn the light off in their room, the grandparents removed all their lightbulbs. (When they moved in, we noticed right away - they never turned off a light in a room when they walked out of it - it was bazaar. We started just calling them back until they got the hang of it).
When they moved in with us, the grandparents told the girls that they'd stay in touch.
Mid-August ‘23 a few months after the girls moved in, the grandparents reached out and asked if the girls could come visit them for a weekend. We were like, Oh, well this will be a huge help.
I was moving Tank back to school for his junior year. Coach had been invited to play at a fancy-pants golf course and this meant he could play a round of golf vs hanging at home with girls. We were like, “Hey, look at us - fostering girls with nearby grandparents.”
After hearing the stories though, I was a little surprised that the girls would want to visit them, but they did.
When the grandparents drove the girls back home after the weekend, the grandparents chatted with us on our driveway for a few minutes.
"Well, it was REAL emotional." (I stared at them blankly) "Their mom's identical twin sister was in town. We didn't tell her that we had the girls and we didn't tell the girls that they were gonna see their aunt (who looks JUST like their mom), so when she walked in there were lots of tears."
They said this as if it was cute, not triggering, not emotional sabotage. What on earth?
That night, the girls acted off, as if they had a foot in two worlds and they weren’t sure how to proceed. We invited them to play volleyball in the yard and they declined - opting to stand on the deck, side by side, stiff and uncertain. I was like, WE JUST TOOK A BACKWARD SLIDE. I called the social worker the next day and she didn't believe me. "She's out of state. She wouldn't have seen them." I assured her the aunt came in town. The social worker was upset and said that was totally inappropriate.
Then in November the Grandma texted, "Can we have the girls this weekend?"
Me: no
Her: Such a quick response?
Me: Reach out to the social worker if you need to.
Turns out their oldest brother, who the girls claim would go off and buy himself food when their mom was MIA on a drug binge and not give them any, was in town. I guess the grandparents like to be heroes who reunite folks, whether or not it makes sense to do so. The girls have zero interest in seeing this brother again. He once locked them in their bedroom for days while their mom was gone. We’ve learned that the utilities were turned off at the house, and they were living in a home that should not have been inhabited. The girls ended up climbing out a window and down the side of the house in order to go to a neighbor’s house.
Months later, the social worker asked us to have a meeting with the grandparents to discuss boundaries and issues and lay the groundwork for their possible involvement with the girls. They agreed to meet via zoom while they were vacationing in Florida. Then they forgot about the zoom. Priorities much?
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This is a long ass story, so I’ll post the rest of it tomorrow. Bottom line: nothing is simple. What’s feeling complicated in your life right now? Oh, and Mini week will be forthcoming. I wanted to post this, because it's weighing on me. Also weighing on me - I need to switch to aluminum free deodorant - recommendations?
(this is a post continued from yesterday - if you've not read my last post, I suggest you do that now. We'll wait. Um, this is long - but I'm leaving it alone. If you don't have time, maybe finish reading it tomorrow?)
Tank was flying BACK to Minnesota. Another friend, another lake house. Living the dream.
I'd told him that we'd leave at 6:40 am for his 8:50 am flight. I was worried about rush hour. As I don't generally need to drive places during that hectic hour, I was uncertain how it might impact our airport drop off. Better to be safe, than sorry.
My eyeballs decided to protest my use of contact lenses that week. Why? It's an unsolved mystery, but nonetheless, I was wearing workout clothes and glasses. I checked the GPS to Midway. I think it said 30 min. In no traffic, I can do it in 25, so not bad.
Reg had agreed to drop Kay at the pool and Mini at the train. I told Kay, UNLESS THERE'S SOME SORT OF HORRIBLE TRAFFIC ON MY WAY HOME, I SHOULD BE THERE AFTER SWIM PRACTICE. Ray was caddying with Reg. And maybe Curly? Who can remember.
6:42 am: Tank and I hopped in the minivan.
6:52 am: We were on the Stevenson Expressway, heading to Midway Airport. We were chatting. I happened to look down. When I wear my stupid glasses, I can't see close, so I lifted my glasses to verify. OH SHIT.
Me: TANK, WE'RE ON EMPTY!
I made him hit whatever button in the Odyssey reveals how many miles we would have until we ran out of gas. He hit the button.
FOUR. MILES.
Me: TANK, WE'RE NOT GONNA MAKE IT. WE'RE RUNNING OUT OF GAS IN FOUR MILES. (insert deep hissing sounds coming from your's truly. I was high pitch squealing, nearing panic mode). There were no upcoming exits with gas stations.
I hollered for him to ask GPS for the closest gas station. I thought we should go north on LaGrange Road. He told me to go south on LaGrange. (this is like industrial type places, maybe the expressway goes over a railroad yard or something non-pedestrian like). Mistake. There was nothing.
Tank: It says 12 minutes.
Me (whimpering): WE'RE NOT MAKING IT 12 MINUTES.
At Archer, he told me to exit. This was now officially the wrong direction. Then he told me GPS wanted me to do a u-turn, but there was nothing worth turning around to. We'd already been down there. I started to cry.
Tank: THERE'S GOTTA BE SOMETHING DOWN HERE. JUST STAY THIS WAY. THERE'S LIKE HOUSES AND SHIT- GOTTA BE A GAS STATION.
Then he spotted it: LOOK! THERE'S ONE RIGHT THERE. OK? OK! WE'RE FINE.
7:02 am (That's when I took the dashboard photo): We rolled into the gas station. He got out to pump and I took a photo of the
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We followed the GPS directions to Midway, because I'd never gone to Midway from Archer Avenue and like 79th Street? A moment later, it dawned on me.
Me: OH. SHIT. IT WAS ME. I DROVE THE MINIVAN YESTERDAY! WHAT? HOW DID I NOT NOTICE?
Upon review of the day before, I remembered rushing to the hair appt. and to Dad's appointment. Then Tank admitted that he drove it to get Mini from the train and he noticed the low fuel, but knew Mini wanted to get home after a long day in the city. I don't drive the same car everyday. I'd just filled up a car, but that was Tex. Curly drove the minivan home from the swim meet. She didn't notice the low fuel light, but she drove it less than 2 miles. I didn't notice the low fuel light the day before - could've been because I was in such a hurry. Oops.
With a full tank - order was restored and GPS says we're gonna get to Midway at 7:35ish I say to Tank: Hey, Dad is flying to North Carolina for the 4th, that's where you're going too, right? I'm wondering if you're on the same flight. He's flying Frontier.
Tank: That's nuts. I'm flying Frontier too.
Then we chatted a minute about when he was returning from Minnesota, which kid this was he was visiting and who else was going (I can't keep it all straight). As we approached Midway, Tank asks me: Where's the United terminal?
Me (I'm blanking on the fact that he just told me he was flying Frontier the following weekend): What? I don't know. Doesn't matter. Don't talk about next weekend. Let's just get through this one.
Tank: This is for this weekend. Where's United?
Me: United flies out of O'Hare.
Tank: We're at O'Hare.
Me: No, we're at Midway.
Tank: (here's where Tank says words that I never imagined could cause me so much stress) MOM - MY FLIGHT'S OUT OF O'HARE!!!!!
Me: WHAT? WHY DIDN'T YOU TELL ME THAT?! YOU JUST WATCHED ME DRIVE TO MIDWAY . . . TANK, YOU'RE GONNA MISS YOUR FLIGHT.
*let's pause here to recognize that kids growing up with GPS at the ready are sometimes at a disadvantage. I knew which direction Midway was when I was like 11 years old. I knew O'Hare was north from our house on 294. And Midway was on the south side - not far from my Irish dancing classes.
7:35 am: Anyway - We were in front of Midway - instead of exiting to the ramp to drop off passengers, I stayed the course. The woman right next to me watched me LOSE my mind. She couldn't hear the shouting and hollering and pure panic on the inside of our car, but apparently our arms-flailing, mouths-flapping, head-bopping was mucho entertaining, because her eyes were popping out of her head and she was giggling.
I floored it. Sped up to the light. Saw the green arrow, inviting me to turn left onto 63rd. Not gonna lie, I felt a little like Matt Damon in the Borne Identity when he hops in the driver's seat and asks the girl who owns the car, "Do you take care of this car? How old are the tires?" or something.
I fix my eyes on the road and tell Tank: Put O'Hare in the GPS. I think it'll have me turn . . .
The GPS told me in a calm voice that only frustrated me further: 'Take a left on 63rd.' Where was GPS's anxiety?
I sped along, weaving through traffic, fortunately making most of the lights. When I was on Archer, I needed to get in the left lane so I could get back on I-55 (the Stevenson). The cars waiting to do this same thing formed a somewhat-stationary, never-ending line. A traffic light separating us from getting anywhere near the ramp to I-55 kept turning red before we could progress. Damn. Finally, I pulled an A-hole move and I got in the right lane, made it through the impossible traffic light and now was positioned next to all of the cars that were waiting patiently. No one wants to let in the A-hole person who is trying to sneak in when it isn't their turn.
7:45 am: I spotted one car with the windows down. It was 85 degrees out..
I pull alongside Mr. I-Don't-Do-AC, roll my window down, and I 'splain as best I can in a not-so-calm voice, distraught showing on my face: I THOUGHT HE FLEW OUT OF MIDWAY AND HE FLIES OUT OF O'HARE, HE MIGHT MISS HIS FLIGHT . . .
No-AC guy is about 28. He saves the day with a wave to get in front of him.
I speed thru traffic on I-55, looking for space to pass other cars and weaving. When I saw an open stretch, I floored it.
Me: CALL DAD, TELL HIM TO TEXT ALLISON (kid is on swim team with Kay) HAVE HER GET WORD TO KAY THAT I'M GONNA BE LATE. SHE CAN WATCH THE NEXT PRACTICE.
I also had him send messages to Kay's coaches thru the team snap app, so someone would let her know I'd be late.
At the oasis exit thing, I faked like I was getting off to get gas, but we all know I ALREADY GOT GAS, and the funny thing is - I THOUGHT THAT WAS STRESSFUL. Bah ha ha. I drove up to the oasis and then blew right on thru to the other side to join the expressway, thereby making better progress because it is RUSH HOUR and most of 294 is a parking lot.
7:55 am: GPS has 8:16 am as our arrival to O'Hare. Flight is at 8:50.
Tank keeps apologizing and we reviewed what happened, him thinking he said O'Hare and me quite confident he never said O'Hare, and me admitting that when he flew Southwest the weekend before to the same destination, I probably just went on autopilot and was in Midway mode. By now, I've moved beyond How We Got Here, and I'm more focused on How We Are Getting There - with enough time to get thru security. This is O'Hare - security can be a beast.
Then the Traveling Wilbury's End of the Line song comes on the radio. Tank turns it up, blaring the lyrics: 'Well, it's all right . . . "
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That's my kid in the baseball hat, making a run for security. |
I gave him the too-soon-to-laugh-at-this-shit look.
I pull up to O'Hare's United terminal and drop him off at 8:09 am. He kisses me, thanks me and I yell: GO!!!!!
A couple of people in security allowed him to hop in front when he shared his WAS AT MIDWAY, FLIGHT'S HERE, OOPS scenario. He called me about fifteen minutes later: I'M AT MY GATE!
Well, that was a two hour trip in the car. I could've like GONE SOMEPLACE. No one gave Kay the message and she'd started walking home, but was hanging out in the shade under a tree waiting for me.
In case you are wondering, Tank was not on Coach's flight the next weekend. That would've been too easy. I drove him to O'Hare Thursday morning, July 3rd. And I picked him up in the middle of rush hour on Monday evening, July 7th - also from O'Hare. I hope he enjoys city life, because I think he needs to stay in town for awhile.
I might need to join GW's (our big-ass van) status as a former airport shuttle.
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Have you ever messed up a flight or an airport? Run out of gas?